Laughter~
The theater was quiet. Everyone, rightly so, was watching the movie. I was watching the movie. It was a very serious scene…the heroine stood before her beloved, begging him not to abandon her. Not to take this path he seemed bent on taking. “You’re breaking my heart,” she wailed…and I burst out laughing. I couldn’t stop. The glares and perturbed head-shakes of the people next to me; the shocked look my husband sent my way, only made it harder for me to stop. I don’t know why. Perhaps it was the awkward dialogue. The blatant statement of the obvious, “You’re breaking my heart…” Well, duh. The tears and first half of your impassioned, awkward speech told me that.
I’m a writer. As such, I am doomed to watch movies and to read books through a writer’s eyes. It’s a curse at times. The internal editor is constantly at work. I partly blame this internal editor for my completely inappropriate reaction to this heart-wrenching scene.
Or, it could be hereditary…
My mom, it seems, has this same affliction. Although, I think her bout of inappropriate hysterical laughter far exceeds mine. I mean, my movie was only Star Wars: Episode III. Not something profound and serious like, say…The Passion of the Christ. Now, I haven’t seen this movie--Anyone who knows me will tell you I have to be dragged to see any movie I know will make me cry--but I’m pretty sure there are NO scenes in which it is appropriate to laugh one’s ass off. That didn’t stop my mom, though. It’s little consequence that she wasn’t laughing at the movie, but rather her friend’s leap almost two feet into the air when a contorted, evil-looking face flashed across the big screen. No, everyone in that theater pretty much thought they were in the company of psycho-laughing-lady. Thanks, mom. I wonder if I should warn Amelia and Jonas that they may carry the inappropriate laughter gene?
Sandy :-)
I’m a writer. As such, I am doomed to watch movies and to read books through a writer’s eyes. It’s a curse at times. The internal editor is constantly at work. I partly blame this internal editor for my completely inappropriate reaction to this heart-wrenching scene.
Or, it could be hereditary…
My mom, it seems, has this same affliction. Although, I think her bout of inappropriate hysterical laughter far exceeds mine. I mean, my movie was only Star Wars: Episode III. Not something profound and serious like, say…The Passion of the Christ. Now, I haven’t seen this movie--Anyone who knows me will tell you I have to be dragged to see any movie I know will make me cry--but I’m pretty sure there are NO scenes in which it is appropriate to laugh one’s ass off. That didn’t stop my mom, though. It’s little consequence that she wasn’t laughing at the movie, but rather her friend’s leap almost two feet into the air when a contorted, evil-looking face flashed across the big screen. No, everyone in that theater pretty much thought they were in the company of psycho-laughing-lady. Thanks, mom. I wonder if I should warn Amelia and Jonas that they may carry the inappropriate laughter gene?
Sandy :-)
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11 Comments:
Hahaha! Laughing during The Passion?? That's awesome. Awesomely funny.
Fortunately the only time that I've completely lost myself in hysterics at a movie was during a comedy. I wasn't laughing at the movie, though, does it still count?
Oh yes, inappropriate laughter. It can only get louder and harder to stop!
Great post
Inappropriate laughter is sometimes the best of all the laughter. The more inappropriate the harder it is to stop it seems. I have been known to laugh at many a movie at all the wrong times. What can you do though? ha!
Great post! Good luck in the blog off.
Courtney ~ After reading this to my mom, she confirmed that she's had this affliction for many, many years. And, so does her sister. Her first recollection of this insidious genetic quirk, was when she and my aunt were mere teenagers, keeping the woman they babysat for company while the woman's husband worked the evening shift. They were watching The Birds. Ummm, you know that scene where all the birds swarm the town and start pecking people in the street? Kids, parents, elderly people. It's a pretty intense scene. Apparently, my mom and aunt burst into fits of laughter, which prompted the woman to start throwing pillows at them and yelling, "What's wrong with you people?", which only served to make my mom and her sister laugh even harder.
I think that is something that should be disclosed early on...
Any history of heart disease...diabetes...uncontrollable-bouts-of-inappropriate-laughter?
Sandy ;-)
Sandra Barkevich - Romance Author
*March 31, 2007 at Sandra's Goings On - Guest Blogger, Anna Campbell - Claiming the Courtesan
Diane & Evey,
I think that's what makes this so insidious...and hysterical! LOL.
Good luck!
Sandy :-)
Sandra Barkevich - Romance Author
*March 31, 2007 at Sandra's Goings On - Guest Blogger, Anna Campbell - Claiming the Courtesan
haha, well I think the dialouge in Star Wars in general was laughable, I would have joined in with you. Glad your mom and you share the same inappropriate laughing that my mom and I do. cheers,
That's fantastic! I remember laughing at a scene in Sweet November. Moments before, I'd made a snide aside to my viewing mate. "This is the point when she gets a incurable disease." Sure enough, moments later... she's dying. I burst out laughing while the girls behind us burst into tears. I'd love to say that I mustered up some compassion, but that just fueled the fire.
I, too, can't stand it when the obvious is stated. But no one is paying to see me, so I can do it.
Enjoy the blog-off!
Just wanted to say that I love your header art. Did you do that yourself? If so, mucho kudos!
Interesting personal story. I am sure your Mother's friend probably knew why your Mom was laughing. If I were that friend I would have a hard time not laughing for sure.
tarametblog ~ That's all I would have needed. A partner in crime! They'd have had to take me out of their on a stretcher for laughing so hard. LOL.
queeniecarly ~ Sweet November...I never saw it. I knew it would be a tear jerker and immediately crossed it off my list of movies to go to. I know it is a flaw and that I miss a lot of excellent movies, but I really do avoid those kinds of movies like the plague. This is actually a small bone of contention between me and my husband, who does enjoy a well-made emotional story. Usually, in the end, he will just rent the movie, not tell me he's done so and sit me down in front of the TV to watch. He knows me so well. Once I'm hooked, I won't complain until I'm balling my eyes out and wailing about how much I HATE/LOVE the movie. *bg*
durante vita ~ Hmmmm...I wonder if I do that? They say what irritates people the most are usually things they don't realize they do themselves.
alex ~ Thank you. Actually, I found the picture on the internet and se7en from Blogs Gone Wild designed my layout. I am super pleased with the outcome. Now, my website, www.sandra.barkevich.com, was designed from scratch by my husband. I love that too. :-)
Lynn ~ I know if it was me, I wouldn't have lost it laughing too.
Sandy :-)
Sandra Barkevich - Romance Author
*March 31, 2007 at Sandra's Goings On - Guest Blogger, Anna Campbell - Claiming the Courtesan
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