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Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Golden~

We buried my grandfather today. And, although there were tears, there were times of laughter too. Little snippets of fond memories shared, and the general family bonding that happens at times like this--Golden moments in a sea of sadness.

Grandpa Nick always seemed to have a smile on his face and a sparkle in his eye that would inevitably bring out the same in everyone around him. These past two days, I’ve spent time with family members I hadn’t seen in years and with some I’d never even met before. As a family, we shared our grief, but also our laughter.

I believe this was Grandpa Nick’s last gift to us. Those few golden moments that allowed us to see past our grief and to celebrate his life rather than dwell on his death.

Thank you, Grandpa Nick.

Sandy

*April 28, 2007 at Sandra's Goings On - Guest Blogger, Leslie Dicken ~ Secret Intentions

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8 Comments:

Anonymous courtney said...

What a sweet post, Sandy. I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost a parent, but no grandparents yet. I'd imagine the pain is no less.

4/19/2007 01:34:00 AM  
Blogger Sandra Barkevich said...

Thank you, Courtney. The military service was beautiful and very emotional.

Sandy
Sandra Barkevich - Romance Author
*April 28, 2007 at Sandra's Goings On - Guest Blogger, Leslie Dicken ~ Secret Intentions

4/19/2007 06:37:00 AM  
Blogger Diane said...

It sounds like you'll have lovely memories of your grandfather.

4/19/2007 07:05:00 AM  
Anonymous mom said...

My dearest Sandy,

As you know, I generally do not make comments to your blogs. While I truly enjoy reading them, I find I'm lost for words...that's your job. I love what you wrote about grandpa Nick. The memory of his witty remarks, his sincerity and his sense of humor is what we will all keep alive in our hearts. I'm so glad you were able to take the time off from work to be with us as a family unit. I love your compassion and the way you show your love and devotion to others. Always stay pure and true to yourself and you'll go far in life. I love you with all my heart.
Love Mom

4/19/2007 10:00:00 AM  
Blogger Evey said...

Thank your sharing with us Sandy. I am sorry for the loss of your grandfather. I see from your moms comment that you guys have plenty of love and support in each other alone to get through tough times.

4/19/2007 11:27:00 AM  
Blogger tarametblog said...

I'm sorry about your grandfather but glad that you have so many golden moments to cherish.

4/19/2007 12:23:00 PM  
Anonymous C~ said...

So sorry for your loss...happy you can see through to the golden...

Also? Your Mom made me cry. :)

4/19/2007 01:56:00 PM  
Blogger se7en said...

My condolences to you and your family, cherish the memories!

4/20/2007 11:42:00 PM  

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